What do our schools teach? Does the educational system
instill and mold the characteristics we desire for our kids? While many
teachers strive to build up the character of their students, the structure and
policies of the public school often negate these efforts.
While pride can be a positive trait under certain
conditions, the pride cultivated in public schools is birthed from competition.
Today, school staff members are instructed to compare students to the norm in
almost every way. Can you sit still as long as Johnny? Is your writing as neat
as his? Most importantly, how does your high stakes test score measure up to
his? And now that these standardized test scores impact teacher evaluations, I
think it is safe to say competition is becoming increasingly fierce in the
schools. Unfortunately, this jives with society’s positive view of pride while
it sees humbleness as a fault rather than an admirable trait.
Under this formula in our schools students find themselves
filled with a false pride or unnecessary shame.
This environment seems to preach bullying; are we working to
prevent or promote it?
I came across a quote I find to be quite accurate:
“Nothing is ever done beautifully which is done in
rivalship; or nobly, which is done in pride.” –John Ruskin
To avoid this damaging situation our students
need to come to the determination that their true value is not of this world.
(A lesson forbidden in the public system)
So what can a teacher do?
- Treasure and show love to each individual student.
- Do not compare but work to seek and expose the unique abilities and strengths of every child.
- Allow them to explore their God-given capabilities while being a support and encourager to their peers.
Imagine if students had clarity within their
self-image and saw peers and the classroom as a support rather than an
opponent.
-A couple verses on the dangers of pride. I’ve found a
strong link in the bible between humility and wisdom.
Luke 18:14
“For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and
those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
Proverbs 13:10
“Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those
who take advice.”